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SINGLE_FEMALE_SEEKING_MALE (4) Single female, seeking male
friendwithbenefi
Age/Gender: 46F
Sweep me off my feet for a night, over & over again
135lbs
Height: 5'4"

Lots and lots of boxes, and I'm sure that lots of people have and will check these boxes.  I won't, but that's just because two people have to get to know each other before determining what their limits are, I know what I won't do at this moment, but it might be different with the right person.  I will say that I am not inhibited by sexuality, it is a beautiful thing, that each person's body is sexual in it's own way.  Toned, fit, average, etc, each brings to the encounter something different and something special.

Am I looking for sex?  No, not necessarily. Excitement? Of course.  Passion? Yes!

The preferences and encounters I am open to are something that we'd have to determine together and see if they mesh.

Doesn't every woman want a tall, dark, and handsome Don Juan type?  We learned all about Prince Charming from Snow White, and couldn't wait to be swept off our feet and pulled up onto the back of his royal steed.  Then we grew up and realized that people are people.  Many things turn me on; but the choices they list are more like types, I don't know how someone being disease or drug free is a turn on, but that's just me, because I expect that.

What turns me on?  Talk to me, flirt with me, seduce me.  Make me forget that anyone or anything outside of what is going on at the moment, be it dinner and drinks, or just a phone conversation to say "how are you" exists.  Brush my hair away from my eyes, touch my cheek, look deeply into my eyes.  Start from there and get to know me.

Yes I do however have a type, but I am open-minded to try and look past it to see the person before me.

I'll just say that it is almost "gold digger" like to say that I expect this or that.  I'll tell you what I don't do and what I like to do instead.  I don't sing in public, but I love driving and listening to the radio loudly, so I can sing and not hear myself sound bad.  I was very active until about a year ago, then I changed jobs and now work behind a desk, where people realize that soda, coffee, and monsters keep them going; so I just joined a gym to get rid of the "freshmen 20" that everyone seems to gain after sitting all day; and limit the soda that I drink.  I like spontaneous things, surprises, getting outside and being part of nature.  I like working on cars, I have a logical mind that wants to know how things work.  I have gone back to school to earn a bachelors in accounting, and realized again how much I enjoy reading, learning and debating.  I fish, I hike, I used to ski but haven't in over 15 years.  I write erotic and non-erotic short stories and poems, and hope to write a book someday.

I'm simple and complex.  I have 3 older children, and 2 grandchildren, (2 children still live at home, 1 in high school and 1 just getting started in the world).

What am I looking for?  I don't really know, but when I am presented with it I'll know.

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Welcome to your therapy session.
Your therapist's name is Robonk.

Robonk: Hello, I am a computer program.
you:    Lots and lots of boxes, and I'm sure that lots of people have and will check these boxes.
Robonk: Is it because you are sure that lots of people have and will check these boxes that you came to me?
you:    I won't, but that's just because two people have to get to know each other before determining what their limits are, I know what I won't do at this moment, but it might be different with the right person.
Robonk: That's quite interesting.
you:    I will say that I am not inhibited by sexuality, it is a beautiful thing, that each person's body is sexual in it's own way.
Robonk: Do you enjoy being not inhibited by sexuality?
you:    Toned, fit, average, etc, each brings to the encounter something different and something special.
Robonk: Could there be some connection, do you suppose?
you:    Am I looking for sex?
Robonk: Would you want to be looking for sex?
you:    No, not necessarily.
Robonk: Does this make you feel unhappy?
you:    Excitement?
Robonk: Please go on.
you:    Of course.
Robonk: I'm not sure I understand you fully.
you:    Passion?
Robonk: Tell me more about that.
you:    Yes!
Robonk: I understand.
you:    The preferences and encounters I am open to are something that we'd have to determine together and see if they mesh.
Robonk: Do you wish that they mesh?
you:    Doesn't every woman want a tall, dark, and handsome Don Juan type?
Robonk: That is interesting. Please continue.
you:    We learned all about Prince Charming from Snow White, and couldn't wait to be swept off our feet and pulled up onto the back of his royal steed.
Robonk: That is interesting. Please continue.
you:    Then we grew up and realized that people are people.
Robonk: Are they always people?
you:    Many things turn me on; but the choices they list are more like types, I don't know how someone being disease or drug free is a turn on, but that's just me, because I expect that.
Robonk: In what way?
you:    What turns me on?
Robonk: What comes to mind when you ask that?
you:    Talk to me, flirt with me, seduce me.
Robonk: I'm not sure I understand you fully.
you:    Make me forget that anyone or anything outside of what is going on at the moment, be it dinner and drinks, or just a phone conversation to say "how are you" exists.
Robonk: Have you asked anyone else?
you:    Brush my hair away from my eyes, touch my cheek, look deeply into my eyes.
Robonk: Does that suggest anything else which belongs to you?
you:    Start from there and get to know me.
Robonk: But your eyes.
you:    Yes I do however have a type, but I am open-minded to try and look past it to see the person before me.
Robonk: Why don't you tell me a little more about this.
you:    I'll just say that it is almost "gold digger" like to say that I expect this or that.
Robonk: What resemblence do you see?
you:    I'll tell you what I don't do and what I like to do instead.
Robonk: That is interesting. Please continue.
you:    I don't sing in public, but I love driving and listening to the radio loudly, so I can sing and not hear myself sound bad.
Robonk: Does that trouble you?
you:    I was very active until about a year ago, then I changed jobs and now work behind a desk, where people realize that soda, coffee, and monsters keep them going; so I just joined a gym to get rid of the "freshmen 20" that everyone seems to gain after sitting all day; and limit the soda that I drink.
Robonk: Perhaps I already know you were very active until about a year ago.
you:    I like spontaneous things, surprises, getting outside and being part of nature.
Robonk: I'm not sure I understand you fully.
you:    I like working on cars, I have a logical mind that wants to know how things work.
Robonk: Please go on.
you:    I have gone back to school to earn a bachelors in accounting, and realized again how much I enjoy reading, learning and debating.
Robonk: Do you say you have gone back to school to earn a bachelors in accounting for some special reason?
you:    I fish, I hike, I used to ski but haven't in over 15 years.
Robonk: You say you fish?
you:    I write erotic and non-erotic short stories and poems, and hope to write a book someday.
Robonk: That's quite interesting.
you:    I'm simple and complex.
Robonk: Is it because you are simple and complex that you came to me?
you:    I have 3 older children, and 2 grandchildren.
Robonk: That's quite interesting.
you:    2 children still live at home, 1 in high school and 1 just getting started in the world.
Robonk: Tell me more about that.
you:    What am I looking for?
Robonk: Have you asked such questions before?
you:    I don't really know, but when I am presented with it I'll know.
Robonk: Why don't you really know?

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